"Did They Ever Reply?" Stop Guessing. This One List Tracks Every Open Loop.

You sent the message. You asked for the quote. You are waiting on the reply. And then life happened, and now you cannot remember: did they ever answer, or are you still waiting?

Most people do not lose work because they forgot to do it. They lose it because they forgot they were waiting on someone else. The open loop sits in your head, quietly, until it is too late to nudge politely.

Here is a smaller fix. One waiting list. Not a to-do list. A list of everything waiting on someone else.

1. Catch the loop in one line

When something is waiting on another person, write one line:

Who it is waiting on. What you are waiting for. When to check back.

Example: Waiting on Sam. The catering quote. Check back Thursday.

No date? The check back date is three days from today. That is the default, and it keeps loops from drifting forever.

2. One daily check, one nudge

Once a day, at a time you pick, read the list back in three groups:

Due today. Due this week. No date yet.

Then pick exactly one nudge: the oldest due item, or the one you name. Draft it in one short paragraph, polite and specific, with the original ask restated so the other person does not have to dig back through old messages.

You send it, or you say skip, and the loop stays open with a new check back date.

Worked example: Monday you ask a supplier for a price. Loop added. Wednesday the daily check shows it due today. The nudge reads: "Hi, just checking on the price for 50 flyers we talked about Monday. No rush if it is still in progress, just wanted to confirm you got it." Thursday the supplier replies with the price. The loop closes, with one line saved: Supplier price, 50 flyers, $180. Friday the daily check shows nothing due. No nudge. A quiet list is a working list.

3. Close it the moment it lands

When an answer arrives, the loop closes. Remove it from the list and note what the answer was, in one line, so you can find it later without rereading the whole thread.

One rule keeps this honest: a loop with no answer after two nudges gets one decision, not a third nudge. Drop it, call instead, or set a new date. Chasing the same person a third time by message is rarely what moves it.

Keep it small, or it becomes a second inbox

If the list grows past 15 open loops, close or drop three before adding more. One nudge a day, maximum. Never nudge the same person twice in one day, and never nudge on a loop that is not yet due.

This skill tracks loops. It does not write full emails for you, turn meeting notes into action items, or plan your whole day. Those are separate jobs, and keeping this one small is why it works.

Try it free

The full Follow-Up Tracker skill is free to copy and use here: https://github.com/lilnickyai/claude-code-skills-samples/blob/main/follow-up-tracker/SKILL.md

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