Building a budget 32GB → 48GB VRAM home AI server: 2-3x RX 9060 XT 16GB vs RTX 5060 Ti 16GB, AM5 vs used EPYC?

I’m planning a dedicated home AI server, mainly for local LLM inference, agents/tool use, Docker services, and eventually larger MoE models with CPU offload. My plan is to start with 2x 16GB GPUs = 32GB VRAM, but I want